Collaborative Law Part Six: The Parties Come to Resolution-Collaborative Law Part Six: The Parties Come to Resolution

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This transcript shows a collaborative divorce meeting focused on reaching agreements without court conflict. The team begins by reviewing a recent parenting crisis involving Kim/Cam, and reports encouraging progress: he has returned to school, is doing better academically, has started therapy with a new therapist, stopped lacrosse to work and earn money, and is communicating better with both parents. The parents are using a step-up 50/50 parenting plan that appears to be working well.<br /><br />The discussion then shifts to financial settlement. Two property-division scenarios are presented: one where Martha keeps the marital home for stability, and another where the house is sold. Martha strongly prefers keeping the house, and Henry agrees. The team works through detailed asset division, including bank accounts, vehicles, life insurance, airline miles, a 529 plan for Cam, and retirement accounts. Because Martha is keeping the home, Henry receives a larger share of retirement assets so the overall marital property is divided equally. The group also discusses tax treatment, QDRO fees, and how certain accounts and trusts will be handled after divorce.<br /><br />Finally, the parties negotiate spousal support. They discuss amount, duration, modifiability, and termination conditions. Martha wants predictable long-term support, while Henry prefers limiting support to his base salary and not his bonuses. They ultimately reach a compromise: support will be based on a 50/50 split, include Martha’s imputed income, and last 10 years, with standard termination and modification provisions. The meeting ends with agreement and transition to document drafting.

Keywords

collaborative divorce

parenting plan

50/50 custody

financial settlement

property division

marital home

retirement accounts

spousal support

QDRO

divorce agreement